10 Signs of LGBTQ-Affirming Care

What to look for before you book — no jargon, just practical signals.

Affirming care signals

When you’re choosing a provider, small signals add up. Use this list to spot places where you’ll be seen, respected, and supported.

1. Pronouns & chosen name are requested up front.
2. Inclusive language on the website and intake forms.
3. Clear nondiscrimination policy that mentions LGBTQ+ explicitly.
4. Comfort with identity topics: partners, family, transition, community.
5. Trauma-aware approach — no pathologizing your identity.
6. Privacy respected; no invasive curiosity.
7. Referral network for specialized needs.
8. Accessibility options: tele-care, sliding scale, flexible hours.
9. Collaborative plan — they follow your lead.
10. Feedback welcomed — and acted on.